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Thirsty Thursday- Pheasant Hallow Midnight Medley

So I think I’ve decided that Thursdays are going to be wine reviews.  I love wine- wine is delicious and amazing.
I’m going to start with a little known wine, that a friend from college recommended.  It’s called Midnight Medley and it’s from a small winery in Southern Illinois called Pheasant Hallow Winery.

The winery is a rustic little place with a gorgeous fireplace for the winter.

Midnight Medley according to their website is: “A pleasant semi-sweet blend of strawberry, raspberry, and black cherry.”

The wine, in my opinion is definitely on the sweet side of semi-sweet (but that is typical of most wines from Southern Illinois).  It is great chilled or room temperature and perfect for summer barbecues.  While this wine cannot be found in most stores, if you can find somewhere close to you that sells it, I highly recommend checking it out.

Flipping over my Flip

A few weeks ago, a colleague found a great deal on TigerDirect for a Flip.  I decided for $30, I’d give it a shot.  Finally got a chance to use it to create a message for Schatz that I’ll be loading onto the iPod I got for him.  I wanted him to have something he could play whenever he was down at work and looking for some cheering up.   He hates the job that he’s got because he’s stuck in basically a hen house a majority of the day. Right now, his biggest escape is running to the library and sending me an email throughout the day.  Hopefully, having an iPod that he can use to tune out the bickering and questions about our relationship (inappropriate-bordering on sexual harassment) will help keep him sane, while he continues to look for another job.

Anyway- so excited because my little video- while just a start, turned out awesome!  Can’t wait to play with this on vacation.

How do you keep your honey happy and cheerful in their job?  What does your honey do to keep you happy?

It’s cold and rainy

And at the end of the day, I’ve been on the road too long today. I’m cuddled up next to my puppy under blankets because I’m keeping the heat bills low. Wishing that I had more money for this Christmas, but being happy that I at least have the best present at all, my schatz!

Making my 101 in 1001 List

So today, I stumbled upon the 101 in 1001 or Day Zero concept while on BlogHer.  I decided to look into it, and the next thing I knew, I was creating a list of things I wanted to do.  I’ve created a so called “bucket list” in the past, but in all honesty, like they Dayzero site says, those are tricky because they often don’t have a specific amount of time attached to them.  And I tend to agree.  Since I didn’t have a time line for my bucket list, I really didn’t have any reason to do any of the things on it quickly.  I also had no where to keep myself accountable to anything.

But I’m posting the info here- for everyone to see.  I’ll officially start my list on Nov. 11.  This is giving me a few days to compile a full list before I start.

Totally looking forward to the next 1001 days.

 

 

Sunday Bible Verse

John 17:20 (A Prayer by Jesus for Believers)

20 “I am praying not only for these disciples but also for all who will ever believe in me through their message.
21 I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me.

Lazy Saturday

Spent hiking, going to wineries, and driving with my Schatz…no better way to spend the day!

E Pluribus Unum

It’s Friday, and I probably should post something light and happy.  But, I’ve needed to write this for so long, and after getting the all’s clear yesterday that Dad was going to be okay- I felt I could finally write this.  Feel free to post respectful dialogue.  If you disagree- that’s okay, I want to hear your opinion.  I only ask that there be no name calling. 

I understand that people want to make money. I’m just as interested in it as the next person (I’d love to retire on a winery).  But what I don’t understand, and don’t think I can ever  understand is how heartily the middle class will defend the slight possibility that they will become millionaires several times over, rather than fight for a more equal distribution of the profits of the businesses they work for.  I’m not talking about communist Russia of old, taking all money from the wealthy and re-distributing it to the workers (and corrupting that with failed policies).  I am however talking about companies that make billions and pay no taxes- about multibillionaires who pay less in taxes (percentage based) than their secretaries because they have privilege and access to accounting geniuses who can help reduce their contribution to this country to next to nothing, contributing more.

It never fails to make me frustrated.  I understand if you think the American Government mis-manages money.   And that you don’t want to give more of your taxes to this mismanagement. But to claim that a Government funded plan to help build more roads, schools, bridges, high-speed rail, etc. is a waste of money?  I can’t understand.  Unless the politicians are burning the money in a fire place, this is not a waste.  Is it possible people are being paid more?  Maybe.  Is that money still going back to local construction workers, truckers, and service individuals?  YES! Putting money into the hands of the middle class is not a waste of money.

Asking those who are sitting on stockpiles of wealth that they will never spend in their life, and probably even in their children’s lives to create jobs is not asking for a handout. It’s not asking them to be unfair.  It’s saying you benefited from the advantages this country gave you (whether it was the school that educated you- and if you went to a private school, I’m betting your teachers may not have, to the roads you use to get to work, and the internet that you may use to conduct business) to make it easier to create your wealth.  If you want to be the type of person who sits on their money to do more than swim through it like Scrooge McDuck- all the more power to you.

But how does the guilt not eat you alive?  How do you make more than your employees and have your wealth  be so drastically different than that of the people YOU rely on to make your money, keep your house, teach your children, and protect your wealth.  No man is an island and no business makes money on its own.  How do you receive government subsidies and tax breaks and then move your business overseas.  How do you plunder our natural resources and fail to appreciate that those natural resources are making you wealthy and threaten our future?

I guess, I’m just frustrated. Living in a city where Occupy Wall Streeters are being treated like crap and job applications thrown at them, really has made my blood boil.  Why are you defending that one in a 100 million chance that you are going to be ridiculously wealthy?   Why  aren’t you fighting for a better life for your family?  Why aren’t you demanding your business pay you a fair wage and still reward their Executives with a slightly lower golden parachute and a few million as opposed to tens of millions? In the end- all these individuals want is a return to what our country used to be.  A return to some decent and common respect for one another, and the idea that by ourselves we do not prosper.  E Pluribus Unum- “Out of many, One”.  One nation out of many….

I believe that this country would not have become what it is if it wasn’t for the shared community of our earliest settlers.  If it wasn’t for the “pitch in” mentality of the Greatest Generation (that when they went to war were asked to give more not less).  Maybe I’m jaded that there used to be a time that in hard times, rich people didn’t flaunt their money. In the end, I wish things would change.  I wish we could find a legitimate way to ask people to still be capitalists but give a little back.  To understand that investing in their own country is the only way they will keep their business strong for years to come, because people will have money to enjoy your business.

In the end, I still believe E Pluribus Unum.  I believe we can still work together to create a better nation than the one we received.

But we need to have everyone on board – and that includes the 1%  too.

So here’s to the 1%.  I don’t hate you.  But I do ask you to ask yourself if you really need another $10 million sitting in your bank account.  For Christmas this year (if you celebrate) why aren’t you giving your employees a bigger bonus, and reducing yours by a fraction of a percent.  I know $1,000 to you is not a lot, but for some of us, it might as well be a million.

 

 

The Test Came Back!

And it was negative for Cancer. Right now, they think Dad is in the clear. Could be that in 6 months it is Cancer (apparently there are cancers that do that?), but for right now, he is cancer free. He does, however, have MRSA in his lungs.

I’m saying a quick prayer of thanks that it wasn’t worse and hoping that in six months we will know for sure it’s all okay!

Recipes and Last meals

I really want to thank everyone for their kind words in regards to my post yesterday.  Since I promised I was going to try and be as authentic as possible that meant that if I felt like I have to write about it, than that is what I do.  This blog is for me to really be me and to make sure that I am being true to myself and what I am feeling and want to talk about. Schatz has a blog (at my urging) and he is so confident and unselfconscious in his blogging that he posts right then and there on Facebook.  It’s one of the things I love about him.

But on to less depressing topics-

So- I’m sure many of you have Pinterest accounts (and if you don’t- you need to find a friend who does and get yourself all up on that site).  Pinterest is a social sharing application that allows you to browse and capture whatever your heart desires in an image heavy way.

For me, I use Pinterest primarily to sort recipes that I find in my day job wandering the blogs of the internet. And today’s NaBloPoMo prompt revolves around what your last meal would be if you could have it.  While I always dislike this question, because really- I’m much more swayed by moods or food types than I am a particular meal.  Maybe I just haven’t met that one true love of a particular food item.  Or maybe it’s that I love too many of them to choose (I’d prefer to go with the latter- because let’s face it.  Food is too delicious not to enjoy).  At any rate, I do know that a main course would have to include soup of some sort.  One of my favorites I found on Pinterest is a recipe that mirrors my favorite soup from the Olive Garden (where I no longer eat, because I’ve gone Gluten Free).

The amazing recipe was found on Annie’s Eats and was just as delicious as the in restaurant version.  Here’s a link to her wonderful site and pictures of the soup.

I would also make my favorite brownies of all time, which also happen to be Gluten Free.  The week I decided to go GF, my mom happened to see this recipe on the Steven and Chris Show.  We made them that weekend, and that gave me the courage to know I could go GF and still have yummy chocolaty baked goodness.
These two items would likely be on my menu for a last meal…

Waiting-the hardest part…

Warning:This blog is going to take an emotional roller coaster thanks to the crazy events that are currently happening in my life.  If I keep myself busy with other activities (I finally finished a craft project inspired by Pinterest- so I’ll be talking about that later this week to lighten the mood) I can easily forget what’s going on with my Dad.  If I have too much time to let my mind wander, especially while commuting, I start to really loose the battle of staying strong. Hopefully, putting this into words will help me with the struggle.

I’m going to put this behind a cut, with a warning that I am talking about potential cancer diagnosis.  If you or someone you love is fighting cancer, this may be a sensative topic, and since I’m on a blogroll, I want you to be prepared.

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